How to say I in Japanese.

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anonymous_noob
anonymous_noob
8 years ago

I've been studying Japanese on and off for quite a while though I've never had conversations in Japanese. As a guy, I think I would use watashi for strangers and boku for friends. As for this lesson, I thought it was very well explained–especially at the beginning when you broke down the usage of 'I' to be dependent upon 3 different things. A very nice summary and overview!

Kristal
Kristal
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "watashi" in both cases.

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

sorry wrong spot…

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Hi

Alex Lugo
7 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

You would use boku in any situation.

Cake!!
Cake!!
7 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Hi

Anon
Anon
8 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

@Kristal I recommend boku with acquaintance friends (that are around your age), and ore with decently close friends. Some people think that using "watashi" for everything is best since it is the "safe" option from offending others. But to Japanese, nothing screams to them louder that you don't know Japanese that well if you can't adjust your use of the Japanese language to the appropriate social context. So using "watashi" with friends isn't recommended. On top of that, I've been told before by some Japanese people that they find it "cute" when foreigners speak overly casual (usually by accident) rather then when they are overly formal.

Jennifer
Jennifer
8 years ago
Reply to  Anon

But Kristal is a female so she shouldn't use "boku" or "ore" at all.

Aaron
Aaron
6 years ago
Reply to  Jennifer

What if she identifies as male? 🙂

Abraham
Abraham
8 years ago
Reply to  Anon

I am a male, so personally I would use 「私」in a formal situation, and 「僕」in more casual environment.

Mireya
Mireya
7 years ago
Reply to  Anon

I would use "watashi" since I like to speak formally a lot, and since you recommended it.

DarthKazar
DarthKazar
7 years ago
Reply to  Anon

Well, not necessary "not recommended" at all. You can use わたし with friends too depending on the situation and what kind of friends you have. Using it all the time do is the safest. It is better to be not acurate than taking the risk of being rude… and "cute", if you have not the level to decide correctly wether use it or not, you better go with politeness. In that case it is never "too much".

Anush (ALU) Nepal
Anush (ALU) Nepal
7 years ago
Reply to  DarthKazar

I actually love saying "Boku" in both formal or informal purpose.

eduardo
eduardo
7 years ago
Reply to  Anon

nice explanation…. so I would use watashi when I meet somebody new, or introducing myself to sepai, bosses and elders….

sai ram
sai ram
7 years ago
Reply to  Anon

We need to use watashi for formal conversation and Boku in informal conversation . Ore can be used in situations where you are speaking with your very close friends who will not get hurt .

CESCA ARBOIS PACAÑOT
CESCA ARBOIS PACAÑOT
7 years ago
Reply to  Anon

thank you! your comment is very helpful.

TINA M. RUTHERFORD
8 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

domo arigato. watashi wa tina desu genki desu ka?

billy chen
billy chen
7 years ago

genki desu. watashi wa billy desu. (or were you asking yuta? lol)

marcus steinhage
marcus steinhage
7 years ago
Reply to  billy chen

i think ill say buko

Joseph
Joseph
7 years ago

why roumaji?

Reeyana
7 years ago

Konnichiwa watashi wa Reeyana desu genki desu

sascha
sascha
7 years ago

I think It is ; ogenki desu ka? ?

Chen
Chen
8 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

I am a female, and I will use watashi in both cases.
ありがとーございますせんせい!!

marcus steinhage
marcus steinhage
7 years ago
Reply to  Chen

i mean boku sorry

ジョザイヤーさん is my name right? Josiah-san
ジョザイヤーさん is my name right? Josiah-san
7 years ago
Reply to  Chen

Never had any confidence in my ability to read japanese well but I read and comprehended it in an instant, guess I'm happy that I found a more consistent way of learning than an app on my phone.

Ida
Ida
7 years ago
Reply to  Chen

Yeah me to.

wonani
wonani
7 years ago
Reply to  Chen

same its just really easy cus u wont offend many people

Charlie
Charlie
7 years ago
Reply to  Chen

The ー is only used in katakana. If you wish to indicate a stretching of a pronunciation in hiragana you can use a small つ. Known as a ちさいつ.

Izabela Lopez
Izabela Lopez
8 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

Yes. I would use watashi too.

Bre
Bre
8 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

Same! I would use watashi for both cases because i am female

Annie
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

WabashI and achi

Cindy
Cindy
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

I would use watashi since I am a woman. You where asking if it was just for yourself talking?

Nyaaaaan-
Nyaaaaan-
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

I think I should use watashi for both cases

Fernando
Fernando
7 years ago
Reply to  Nyaaaaan-

I would totally go for "ore", because it's more practical and fasttest to say "ore wa" than "boku wa" or "watashi wa", i kinda pronounce it like "Re-wa"

Liridon
Liridon
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

Watashi has a nice sound to it. I would use however Boku since I am a beginner and Watashi for formal langauge when I have a more advanced understanding of speaking japanese.

Moosa
Moosa
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

Would use boku in both senses .

Josh
Josh
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

I personally would use watashi in formal situations and boku in non formal situations like with friends or something

Kelly
Kelly
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

I am wondering, why use sore data shows. Is not sore telling someone you are talking about an object close to you but far from them?

Anime lover
Anime lover
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

I would watashi, atashi or watakushi.

Kamrun
Kamrun
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

I would if I wasn't a guy :3

Rin
Rin
7 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

Same

Eva
Eva
6 years ago
Reply to  Kristal

I'd use watashi in both formal and informal speech (I'm female)

Pierre
Pierre
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Im used to 'Ore' can i use Ore for both?

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  Pierre

No

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

thanks for your hard work for foreign people learning Japanese

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Question in depth what is keigo? is just another way to say formal and non-keigo(non formal?)

Natu
Natu
7 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Kegio is formal language. There's another article here on the use of keigo that would really help.
https://www.yutaaoki.com/blog/when-to-use-keigo-honorific-speech-hierarchy-in-japanese-society

Christina
Christina
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Because I am a woman, i would use "watashi" in both cases 🙂

Thanks a lot for your lessons. really looking forward to watch more of youre japanese lessons 🙂

Ana
Ana
8 years ago
Reply to  Christina

Same for me ^-^

Maja
Maja
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I am a female, and I want to use watashi, because its more simple for me 🙂

Coby
Coby
7 years ago
Reply to  Maja

I think i will be using "watashi" sometimes and "boku" all the time and "ore" for my friends here in my place. But what if i use the girls way of saying "I" in Japanese like "uchi" would it be a bother?

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi on keigo situations and ore on non-keigo situations

Sasha
Sasha
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I found this video really helpful. I am currently taking Japanese One at school and while boku was briefly mentioned, we only used watashi. The other options were never mentioned at school. In this video, everything was explained very clearly, not too fast and not too slow. I would probably use watashi in all cases though, just because I am used to it a lot more than anything else.

ghell
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

hhmm i want to use "boku" because it's simple to say it 😀

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Boku, definitely boku. Good definitive lesson, thanks.

Jhon
Jhon
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Maybe i'll use "Boku" in both cases.

Cloudsdale
Cloudsdale
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

OK, so you explained pretty well when to use these words and how to pronounce them. This is great. What I still don't know, though, is what these words actually <em>mean</em> in Japanese (what particular <em>ideas</em> they cause in your head). And I noticed they are quite "structured", therefore their particular syllables must mean something, right? For example, "atashi", "watashi", "washi", "watakushi", "wai" – they all seem to have some syllables in common, just some other syllables thrown in in the middle or at the beginning. What do these syllables mean separately and when one combines them into these words?
Also, what does "desu ka" mean and why is it used only in formal context? Why is the trailing "u" in "desu" silent?

Idrislane
Idrislane
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

I would use (watashi) when talking to someone who I don't know and ( boku ) with friends and close family members

Catie
Catie
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

uchi sounds cute but is it more of a children's thing or could I get away with it, being in Highschool? I'd probably also use Atashi.

Kuroneko13
Kuroneko13
7 years ago
Reply to  Catie

I would atashi aswell considering i am in highschool

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

In vampire knight, an anime on of the guys used a type of "I" that was considered rude. Do you have any idea what it could have been and/or examples of rude ways to say "I".

Carmen
Carmen
8 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Rethinking what makes sense, he probably used a rude way to say "you".

Alex
Alex
7 years ago
Reply to  yuta

Thank you for the lesson. 🙂

Ashley
Ashley
7 years ago
Reply to  yuta

I have been studying jappansese for a while and learn that the word I can be left out so how do you know when you can drop the I ?

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

uchi is the cutest but i woud use watashi

Ron
Ron
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Thanks, Yuta. This is great?
What about the variant _watakushi_? I've heard it used a few times. Is it old-fashioned?

でいいびど
でいいびど
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I completely agree! I've been slowly teaching myself Japanese for the past two or three years and I would use Watashi. Seeing as it can be used politely and in formal situations, I would most likely use it when talking with strangers or when in a professional Space. It seems to be a very versatile phrase and I personally believe that as a man, I can use it in many situations.

Havane
Havane
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i would like to use boku because i like how it sounds but i'm a girl. would it be strange if i used it anyway?

Maria
Maria
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

Um, eh, sorry, but is using "boku" for girl very bad(rude?)? I just really dont like "uchi" or "atashi" and dont want to use "watashi" in non-keigo situations

Maria
Maria
7 years ago
Reply to  Maria

I'm another Maria who would really like to use "boku". I can understand how it'd be really strange, but like, what if I was only to use it in really casual settings with close friends of the same age? Still unusual? (If so, I guess I'll get used to atashi……)

Kirk
Kirk
7 years ago
Reply to  yuta

Wait, but why is it okay if you're writing a song? I'm pretty sure I've heard a women refer to herself as Boku in a StereoPony song.

Yukii
Yukii
6 years ago
Reply to  yuta

I'd rather use watashi in both situation. Well it depends watashi and atashi sounds the same tho.

Yukii
Yukii
6 years ago
Reply to  yuta

I'd rather use watashi in both situation. Well it depends watashi and atashi sounds the same tho.

Abby
Abby
8 years ago
Reply to  Havane

You'd sound like a tomboy.

KD
KD
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I think i will use 僕 in both formal and informal situation

Aileen
Aileen
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Thank you for the introductory lesson. Watashi or atashi is fine with me for keigo or non-keigo 🙂 I haven't heard how uchi is being used or maybe I'm not yet aware of this term prior to seeing this video.

Aishel Marie
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi. Thank You!

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

"Boku", it sounds easier to remember despite being shorter than "ore"

Sierra
Sierra
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi. Thank you for this very informative video:)

Josh
Josh
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would probably use Ore informally and Watashi Formally.

Chrislynn
Chrislynn
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi.

Isabel
Isabel
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would prefer watashi in both cases
by the way thanks for these lesson

KiiRoz
KiiRoz
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

My first video lesson! I'll keep watching more

The formal one I would use 私(watashi), like to write a letter or something official but, i might also use 僕(Boku) since I'm a guy.

The casual one I probably use both 俺(Ore)/僕(Boku) from time to time.

I've some questions for yuta-san too!
Do Japanese people still using the old words like 自分(jibun) or 吾輩(wagahai) to call them self?(the last one I was expected to be hear from old people, but do young people still you the 1st one nowadays?) and is it impolite to call strange people あなた, and how should I called them to be more polite?

Thanks for the lesson again! : )

George
George
7 years ago
Reply to  KiiRoz

Boku

dylan
dylan
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

When I was in Japanese 121 I learned watashi was the safe bet when in doubt so I think in most situations I will use watashi, but if I was talking to friends I would most likely use boku.
is it safe to say that would be my best bet?

Jewel
Jewel
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Great lesson. One question, is the 'u' silent all the time, or just under certain circumstances?

Taylor
Taylor
8 years ago
Reply to  Jewel

No, the 'u' is not always silent. For example the 'u' sound at the end of boku is said but the 'u' sound at the end of desu is not.

Dekota
Dekota
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I'm going to use Uchi in informal conversations forever now <_<

Trev
Trev
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

You would use watashi when speaking formally, and using boku if you are speaking to friends or close acquaintances. You can also use boku when speaking formally.

I'm pretty sure this is how you say it as a male.

I hope I'm posting this correctly, I'm new to this site

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Hi

Spade
Spade
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would most likely use "Boku" in most situations, as it is easy to remember, though I think it would be a good habit to use others.

Mackaina Wright
Mackaina Wright
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi in both formal and informal situation. Also, really nice video, easy to understand and short.

stephanie
stephanie
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i would use "watashi " formal
"atashi" informal

hehe :3

Bailey
Bailey
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I'm a male so i would use "boku" or "ore" with informal and "watashi" or "boku" with formal.

Tammy
Tammy
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

konnichiwa Yuta San,

Watashi no namae wa Tammy desu
Ogenki desu ka
I like to use watashi in both cases as I am an older female and I like to be polite.

Arigatou gozaimasu

Zyrus Aran
Zyrus Aran
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Thanks for the Lesson Yuta~sensei 😀

Carissa M
Carissa M
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

As it is easier to remember and I am female, I would use Watashi in both formal and informal situations. 🙂

TJ
TJ
8 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

boku but ore when i am showing off

Zevi
Zevi
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I find it a bit difficult finding out what to use. I'm a transgender male who hasn't gotten into transitioning yet, and it is quite hard for me to pass as male most of the time because of my high pitched voice. I'm not sure if I should just use "Watashi" or if I could use "Boku"…

Lavi
Lavi
7 years ago
Reply to  Zevi

I'm also a transgender male and I would definitely prefer to use "boku", it just seems more appropriate to me.

But if I ever felt unsure, or that people would question, I would probably use "watashi", just to avoid the awkwardness.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi

Quentin
Quentin
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use boku for informal situations and watashi in informal situations.

Thanks for the video !

Adimar Simil Silva junior
Adimar Simil Silva junior
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i Would use 私 in formal and 僕 since its a more polite casual word.

Ryan
Ryan
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use boku like you. Because you can use it in almost any situation

Ariana
Ariana
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "watashi" in both formal/normal but sometimes informal I would switch it up.

sofia
sofia
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi for both situations. it seems easier for women since its more common for them to use watashi in formal or informal situations :). great first lesson!

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "boku" as it fits me a bit more. . .casual.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I use boku when conversing with friends and watashi when meeting new people.

Reuben
Reuben
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

From this lesson, I learned that Japanese does seem a lot more complicated than English. But I am still determined to learn it!

So what I've learned is we should use Boku for informal conversations but it is possible to use boku for formal conversations as long as you add "desu" or "desu-ka".

Muffina Chan
Muffina Chan
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i´ll keep it easy, and say Watashi :3

Tecchi
Tecchi
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

boku and ore for me… depending on what attitude the person has…

Cake!!
Cake!!
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I use watashi

Rebekah
Rebekah
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I knew that "watashi", "boku", and "ore" were ways to say "I", but i did not know they were separated by gender specifications.

kin
kin
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

are there spaces in japanese?

Jessi
Jessi
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use Watashi for both case

Keenan
Keenan
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i would use "boku"

vramby
vramby
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

When I started learning Japanese, my teacher told me to try to avoid to talk about "I" as much as possible. (As it would be impolite to always talk about oneself 😉 )
Just use the Watashi to present yourself, then leave it out as much as possible.
I have always been using 私 …

Anwell
Anwell
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

this is really informative man! great job and thanks!

Luka
Luka
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i prefer watashi and boku

Jay
Jay
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use"watashi" in both formal and informal

Carlos
Carlos
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use Watashi on Both cases, unless I am talking with a friend

Razvan
Razvan
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Well i'm a guy so i think i'll use "boku" because its easier to pronounce and watashi in case of an older person adresses to me on a stranger

Mikela
Mikela
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I am a women,so I would use "watashi"? Right.

Andre
Andre
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

hmm well since watashi is accepted for both formal and informal situasions, and im a guy. i would try to use Watashi first, and see how it goes. if someone else told me i had to use something else, i would read up on that word and see if its correct. and then switch if it is correct.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Would have been nice if he taught us how to draw the words though D:

Jacey
Jacey
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi in both cases and occasionally atashi.

Syril
Syril
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi on formal situation and boku on casual

Aleksandra
Aleksandra
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

As I'm a women, I use watashi in both situations (formal and informal).

My japanese roommate usually using uchi, when she is talking about herself. First time when I heard it I was confused. I thought i should use uchi too, because when I'm always saying "watashi" it sound weird probably. But now I know it's normal. Thank You! ありがとうございました。

Kasey
Kasey
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use Watashi

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would alternate between 僕 and 私.

明香
明香
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use 私 in both formal and informal situations.

レヴァン
レヴァン
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

僕ここに来ました

Raquel
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I wold use Watashi in every situation since I'm a girl.
Also, I thought "Taeme" meant YOU! Because of anime XD
Great lesson
My first lesson with Yuta XD

Daniel
Daniel
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would say "私' for formal situations and '僕' for friends. But I would like to see how does '俺' work with friends, after all that the most used in manga, anime and some histories, など,
and that is acceptable but it kinda brings this manly, gangster sense in it.

tiffany
tiffany
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

.i think i will use uchi with friends and watashi with poeple i'm unfamiliar and familiar with

Mateusz
Mateusz
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I guess I'm gonna use 僕 when informal and 私 when formal.

Aurore
Aurore
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

As a woman, I will use 'watashi' in both situation.

jason
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i would follow the norm and use watashi when needed to be extremely polite to strangers and boku. but i feel that using boku in a very polite way to strangers is viable too as im sure that not a lot of Japanese citizens/people would be offended by it

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I find ORE a lot easier to start. If I get any better I'll try to use boku.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "watashi" for both formal and unformal situations

Nick
Nick
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

私 With meeting new People
僕 Friends
俺 When having drinks

Edwin
Edwin
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "boku" for both.

Thomas
Thomas
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Formal would be watashi
Informal would be boku
For me

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "Boku" because it's much simpler and i wouldn't want to sound impolite while speaking

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "Boku" because it's much simpler and i wouldn't want to sound impolite while speaking

Jay
Jay
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Both

Relix (Corey)
Relix (Corey)
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Boku.

Deronte
Deronte
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Boku

明子
明子
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi in both cases as well

H
H
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

same as anonymous_noob "watashi" for stranger or first meeting, as well as relationship start to get closer and gain confidence then it will be time to use "boku".

Jason
Jason
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Well for informal situations I would use "boku" as its more comfortable to say. In formal situations, I would use "watashi".

Janai
Janai
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

What happens if you're gender neutral?

Light
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Ore or watashi depending on my mood.

Joel
Joel
7 years ago
Reply to  Light

Since I am male,I should use "boku" continuous when I would talk to friends who do live in Japan and "watashi" at work and for strangers.

Michaella
Michaella
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I think I would use watashi since I'm a girl and its the easiest to write

Ana
Ana
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi in both situations.

Mitchell
Mitchell
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Very formal video indeed, I'd use watashi with strangers and boku with friends and people I'm familiar with

Eugene Fisher
Eugene Fisher
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would probably use "Boku", especially since I'm learning.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Not sure if I'm replying in the correct area, but here goes. Formal I would say "watashi", informal I would go with "boku". If the mood or formality of the situation changed I would (hopefully) adjust accordingly.

Koko
Koko
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Honestly, hm prob watashi for new people, boku with friends, and ore for fun XD

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I'll use "僕(ぼく)" now.

Kristina
Kristina
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi in both cases.

Rosemary
Rosemary
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi.

Eric L Donaldson
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Formal: Boku
Informal: Watashi

Eric L Donaldson
7 years ago

Sorry I meant to switch them around ?

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Boku

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i would use "ore"
but i might use "boku" with someone superior that me

Joel Tan
Joel Tan
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I'm a male so i use watashi in formal(keigo) and use either Boku or Ore in informal(non-keigo) situations

Jimmy
Jimmy
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Thank you for sending this lesson! It's really helpful! ありがどうございます。
I prefer using 私 in most of the cases, formal and informal.

Gary
Gary
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would probably stay formal. Don't have to worry about mistakes that way and avoid embarrassment. Also i like to come across as very formal. I believe its the best way to be respectful and maintain honor.

Prabu
Prabu
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Depends really. I would go for boku in a more comfortable and less formal environment and watashi in a formal situation

Gabrieal
Gabrieal
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i already knew i always use Ore

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Watashi when being formal and Boku when informal… but i will probably just stick to boku.
Trying to keep it simple here… that was alot of info.. just for I.

Is it the same for "me"?

Jared_C
Jared_C
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

boku if you are male and watashi if you are female

Zareya
Zareya
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use 私 because it's more simple and easy.

Nyla White
Nyla White
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would u watashi.

Soul
Soul
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

As a guy and beginner, I think I should use "Watashi", thanks

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Well, as my first Yuta video since signing up, I have barely any idea of the contextual bits of this video. But today, I did learn how to say "I" in Japanese.

Puja
Puja
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi

Herbert
Herbert
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Watashi -Formal
Boku- Informal

Adam
Adam
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "boku" in any situation

Luis
Luis
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I think im going to go with boku since its more up my alley

Prady
Prady
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Boku in both

unique
unique
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

for female it would be watashi for any reason but if you want to use informal atashi and uchi.

b_anon_a
b_anon_a
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I'd like to use Ore just because it sounds nicely to my ears, but I don't know if I really can use it all the time (or just during informal speech).

Rufus
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Watashi in formal and Boku informal because I'm a guy

Baran
Baran
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I too would use 'watashi' for strangers and 'boku' under friends

George
George
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Finally starting to watch the vids you've sent me, really nice explanations! This seems like the best way to learn to speak, i had started out learning hiragana and after seeing the kanji video it seems like ill never be able to be literate [unless i dedicate a lot of time to practice] so learning how japanese people actually speak their language is probably more useful. Thanks for these vids, Yuta, ありがとうございます!

James
James
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Simple enough, because I am male, in a formal situation I would use the word 'watashi' and in an informal situation I would use the words 'boku' or 'ore'. Ah, also for added politeness I would probably use 'watashi desu-ka'. Which is neat, I had not questioned what it meant but it felt like it was used to signify a question after hearing my first words from my grandma, 'ikaga desu-ka' (are you okay? (I'm probably not right but woo)) and catching it in subtitled anime.

jonathan burns
jonathan burns
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use boku

Carsen
Carsen
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use Watashi for both.

Luther
Luther
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

From my understandings, you can use "watashi" in both situations if female. If male you can use "boku" or "ore" in both situations, as long as you include "desu" or "desu ka". Am I correct?

GAry
GAry
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would go with watashi everywhere I was uncertain, and boku everywhere else.

Fernando
Fernando
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

The weirdest one I remember in manga is 拙者 :O

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

as a male i would use Watashi in formal situations and Boku in Informal situations

Brianna
Brianna
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

formal: watashi
Imformal: watashi, atashi, and uchi

Ross
Ross
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "Ore" I just like the sound of it and I'm a creature of habit so I'd most likely use it in both situations

Erin
Erin
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

As a woman, which form of "I" would be more common in casual conversation? Specifically, which one is normally chosen by native speakers?

Alisa
Alisa
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i would say uchi or watashi

Michael
Michael
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use boku

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i prefer use word "boku" than watashi in formal or informal
that just sound polite and simple to say

Brian
Brian
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

You would formal with watshi and boku

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

is this also available on youtube?

Zakaria
Zakaria
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I will use Boku thanks yuta

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

i would use watashi 🙂 for formal and informal

New Sub
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I usually tend to go with watashi at first greeting, then switch to boku or ore once I know a person, even if we arent that close yet. Friends will do.

I had heard of the phrase washi, jibun and uchi, however I had assumed that these were older phrases for a more older general, especially washi.

Still, love the vids.
Thanks

Samantha
Samantha
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

watashi and atashi?

Michelle
Michelle
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Agree, This really helps in not only talking "textbook japanese".

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Boku would be best for me, though I can see using Watashi in some formal scenarios. I doubt I would use Ore

Staci
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I'd use watashi in both

josh
josh
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would like to use boku please thanks for the lesson

Frankie
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I choose boku

Tobi
Tobi
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I think I will use 'watashi' in both circumstances. Thank you Yuta-san for this lesson!

Mandy
Mandy
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would definitely use ''watashi'' in formal and informal situations.

Rich
Rich
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Could I use Boku as formal and Ore as informal without trying to be a 'gangsta'?

Gigi44
Gigi44
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Watashi

Aaron Francis
Aaron Francis
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Since I was raised to be polite with practically everyone (especially strangers, foreigners and elder family members); I would most likely use "watashi" to in a formal situation and "ore" in an informal situation, like with friends.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I will use 私 in both cases.

Uhrbart
Uhrbart
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Because I am still very new to Japanese, I would use watashi, just to avoid seeming rude using a confident form even though my Japanese is bad. As my Japanese gets to a better level, I suppose I will use boku for informal. I think I'd only use boku for formal once I am rather fluent.

Hannah
Hannah
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "watashi" and "atashi"

Dijon
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

As a beginner I think I got used to saying "boku" but ill practrice saying "watashi in formal situations.

JoshO.
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

My younger sister has learned a bit of Japanese here in California, so she did explain to be a little on the factor of Watashi. Yuta-san has clarified this further. Personally I'd use Boku, similar to Yuta-san( Yuta-san or Aoki-san?), since the use of watashi can be used in both feminine and keigo it can be mentally confusing to me at times. I also want to get this right since I aim to teach english as an ALT. I do have a random question that bugs me. When is a good time to switch from using the last name+ honorific to first name+ honorific?

Karen
Karen
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi in formal and informal

dustin
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

boku since its easier to remember

Yotam
Yotam
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

You would use boku

Carlos
Carlos
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Boku seems to be the most appropriate according to yuta and for several of the people in the comments seems to work just fine so I'd say Boku.

Evan
Evan
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I'd rather use Boku

Evan
Evan
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I rather use Boku

Quan
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use Boku and Watashi

Shinna
Shinna
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use "watashi" … it is easier to remember ^_^

August Wilson
August Wilson
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Watashi is what you use for formal an informal

Milton
Milton
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use boku in both cases

La8tyT
La8tyT
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

I would use watashi for both.

Sok Samnang
Sok Samnang
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Excuse me Sensei, can I use only WATASHI all the time?

Sok Samnang
Sok Samnang
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

Excuse me Sensei, can I only use WATASHI all the time?

六
6 years ago
Reply to  anonymous_noob

To be safe I would prefer using Boku or Watashi

Kel
Kel
8 years ago

このビデオはちょっと易しぎました。それでもまだ好きで良かったです。よく僕は「僕」を使います。でも時々「私」をも使います。友達としゃべったら、「僕」を使って先生としゃべったら、「私」を使うんです。ビデオをありがとうございます。次のビデオを楽しみにしています!!^_^

Santeri
Santeri
8 years ago
Reply to  Kel

私もご意見に賛成致します。この動画は朝飯前くらい簡単でした。ただし最後に紹介させていただきました語彙の使い方について私もかなり疎いでございます。これからお力添えをお願い申し上げます。

TheHutch
TheHutch
8 years ago

Personally I probably would use Boku as it seems the easiest and most flexible way to say "I".

Jason
Jason
8 years ago
Reply to  TheHutch

Same here 😀

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  Jason

i think boku would be the easy one to use unless i was talking to my wives father then i would use the more formal but thats me ( her dad is a little formal )

Nhi
Nhi
8 years ago

Hi Yuta!
Thank you so much for your lesson !
I'm little being confused about using of "watashi" in Japanese, so it helps a lot
Keep going your great works 🙂
Nhi

Joe
Joe
8 years ago

Nice, the part where you explained that a bad guy would never use ore was very helpful.

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  Joe

i think he said that he can't imagine a bad guy (or gangster, as was his example) saying "boku."

Eriol
Eriol
8 years ago

Hey Yuta,
Your video is unavailable for others to view because of its privacy settings, it seems.
Also, this topic might be a little too basic, but I guess it doesn't hurt to see what you have to say on it. Keep up the good work, I like your videos anyways.

Eriol
Eriol
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

Sorry for the late reply.
I'm trying to watch it from this page, yes. (https://www.yutaaoki.com/blog/how-to-say-i-in-japanese)
Maybe it's something to do with regional settings, or IP blocks like certain Youtube videos also do?

hiko
hiko
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

I just can't watch this video too 🙁 is there another links to watch this video?

Anonymous
Anonymous
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

I tried to watch it and it wouldn't start, I'm sure its not internet problems because streaming works fine with me. It seems like the root of the problem is something else. Please and thank you 🙂

Samantha Rodriguez
Samantha Rodriguez
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

Yuta I just want to say I appreciate the work you put into these lessons, thank you so much!

Matthew Antill
Matthew Antill
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

I am also having trouble viewing the video from this page. Thank you.

Jim R
Jim R
8 years ago
Reply to  yuta

Using the Safari browser on an iPad Air 2 I got the dreaded "can't play video because of security settings" message. Holding down the refresh symbol in the address bar (the circular arrow chasing itself) pops up a menu and picking "request desktop site" fixed the problem. Fwiw.

phree
phree
7 years ago
Reply to  yuta

So how can I say hi, I am Phree informally ?
I know this konichiwa, watashi wa Phree -chan desu.
So I guess konichiwa boku Phree-chan desu..?

Armando
Armando
8 years ago

I will practice using boku when I'm talking with friends.

Alexander
Alexander
8 years ago

Ah, I never knew that there was such a "semi-well-defined" different between how men and women say "I".

Christian
Christian
8 years ago

Hey thanks Yuta I found this pretty helpful.

Ryesha
Ryesha
7 years ago
Reply to  Christian

I agree. As a beginner, I don't really know much about the language.

Carlos
Carlos
8 years ago

I know you only briefly went over the other versions of "I" but as a mainly anime watcher I was wondering as to why they would use those other versions of "I". Other than that great video, thanks for the help.

Brian
Brian
8 years ago

To me boku doesn't sound as nice, so I prefer to use watashi in any situation as a male. Have never spoken to a Japanese though so maybe that will change in the future.

Yeltsin
Yeltsin
8 years ago

I learned watashi first so it sounds more natural for me to use that then the other 2. But like how someone commented, I would use watashi for strangers and boku for friends.

Suzanne
Suzanne
8 years ago

Hi Yuta san, thank you so much; I watch alot of Dramas and anime and always had this kind of question, so yeah, now I get the point.

you're great!

Oscar
Oscar
8 years ago

So I normally only use 俺 in most situations. But say I want to make a good impression on my girlfriends parents the first time I meet them, I'd naturally use keigo. Is it acceptable to use 俺 or should I always go for 私 ?

Viliam
Viliam
8 years ago

Awesome lesson. Thank you very much!

As a man, I would use "boku" in formal and informal situations, I think.

One question: this lesson is valid to japanese writing too? Or this works only in conversations?

Maximilian Kruse
Maximilian Kruse
8 years ago

Great Video, thanks.

I mostly learned that 僕 is a "childish" way to say "I", 俺 is the Gangster way and 私 is the normal way to go if i dont know what to say.

ジヤニ
ジヤニ
8 years ago

Hi Yuta,
That was really helpful for me ^^ I am so happy that I find you *^*

Júlia
Júlia
8 years ago

Hi there,
Thank you a lot for the video, this topic has always been kind of confusing to me. Now I've got it clear!
私、僕 ~ formal
僕、俺、私(for women)、あたし、うち ~ informal

本当にありがとうございました、YUTA先生!
これからもがんばります!

Júlia

Arvy
Arvy
8 years ago

Thank you for the lesson!
Since the textbooks i've used never explained it in detail, it was very helpful and easy to understand.

Destiny Kuehn
Destiny Kuehn
8 years ago

Very informative! =) first-person in Japanese had always kinda confused me up until now. But I have this other question, though: I know "boku" is supposed to be used by males, but I've heard women use it too? If you're a tomboy-ish female, is it acceptable to use "boku"?
Thanks!

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